pinkpony Hotter than Hell
Posts: 414
(3/26/05 1:24 pm)
good bye all.
Well i thought long and hard over the last few days about leaving the community. And I have come to the conclusion, that I am going to leave for a while. I am not sure if this is a perminate leave or what. All I know is that it hurts me that you people have the audacity to talk such crap about people you don't even know. Just because something doesn't go your way, and etc doesn't mean you black list someone and thier significant other.
Darcerin, I only know a tiny bit of what happened between you and Blue but it is out of my control at this point and I do not wish to be involved anymore. As far as Blue making an ass of himself, people make mistakes. If you can not forgive thier mistakes then I feel you need to do some soul searching yourself. Yeah flame me for this but this is my opinon and my personal experence. Because in the end where does it get you... no where. So you messed with some ones reputation, yeah and... this is the net, not real life.
So anywhoo, those of you who care to still chat with me can. I will be no longer around and really don't care to be since I have been quite hurt the past couple of days. Hanging out here watching people throw stones at each other, being manipulative and casting judgements isn't for the likes of me.
I am sorry glitzy that you are loosing a memember that has been here 3 years, but I really don't feel that this is my place right now. I will contact you if I feel like going to the new CF ever.
pinky, I have nothing against you, but I stand by my post about Blue. I made it because of something he did last night that will make me unable to access the ghetto, something he did out of pure spite.
Re: good bye all.
i didn't see anyone banning you or him from the catfight - maybe i wasn't paying attention.... so why would you be leaving the CF because we don't feel comfortable having your husband at the ghetto??? that doesn't make sense. sure, i can see where that might hurt your feelings - but should the ghetto members be penalizes and made to feel unsecure at the ghetto just so that your husband can be there?
you can't deny that blue hurt lots of ppls feelings and made people feel uncomfortable - that's just the way it is. that shouldn't mean YOU can't come around and be friendly with people.
if you choose to sulk and leave, that's your choice - but don't pawn it off on other people that they're making you leave because of the way they're treating you.
greater love hath no angel than to give her life for another
Re: good bye all.
I have no problem with you pinkie. But making LEGAL THREATS to the Ghetto because we refused to un-ban him is very low and people have the right to be pissed about seeing a place they love and enjoy thoroughly being threatened to disappear.
We did not have the audacity to assume things. We reacted to only what we saw of him. And it wasn't pretty.
pinkpony Hotter than Hell
Posts: 415
(3/26/05 1:53 pm)
Re: good bye all.
Okay angelwith a gun.
Blue got banned from the Getto., he isnt allowed on. I was a member of the Getto to, I got banned as well. I did jack shit nadda.
I am leaving for a while if you read my post, i said it may not be a perminent move. Blue i my huband, and yes it does hurt me that ppl cant just move on that i it. I understand he has pissed ppls off many of us do at times, I am not argueing that. But in my personal opinion, it has gone a little too far and I no longer want to be associated with it. I am not sulking or anything. It i just time to move on.
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Bleedingwillow I'm hotter than hell!
Posts: 1839
(3/26/05 1:57 pm)
Re: good bye all.
From what I understand, your account was banned because no one trusts him not to sign in under it.
From what I've seen, that's not an unfounded mistrust.
"Oh how the angels must laugh and sigh to hear me pleading with you and needing you this way. Don't you want to be happy with me? " ~Veruca Salt~
Re: good bye all.
pink... since he likes to act like he's mr computer guru, why should we think its safe for you to have an account? so that he can come in under your account? (not saying that you'd give him your password, but he likes to act like he's mr hot shit with the computer)
so... i don't think you can really blame anyone for feeling that way...
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athaliah1 Waiting for custom level
Posts: 1408
(3/26/05 2:03 pm)
Re: good bye all.
Pink, I don't even know you. Therefore I have no reason to have a problem with you. My problem is with your husband. When I was in chat yesterday, he said something about "ghetto members jumping on the bandwagon". I found that to be rude. I have my reasons for not trusting him or liking him and when I told him what they were, he not only insulted me, but one of my friends as well. That pissed me off. I found his manner to be condescending and aggravating, and the more he talks, the more I feel justified in disliking him. But let's get this straight- I have no problem with you. If you want to leave, fine. If you want to dislike me, fine. I'm sorry that your feelings are hurt. I hope to see you around again soon.
Mom, Jackie, Rachel, Crystal, Diana, both my babies, Matt, Jen, Jef, Scott, Brian, Star, Betty, Deva, Abigail, Danny, and Xavier, I love you all. May you rest in peace.
cobralily Goddess of tackiness
Posts: 1757
(3/26/05 2:56 pm)
Re: good bye all.
he is uber rude and openly treatening to other members. defend him all you wish, it doesn't change the facts. i just feel bad for you having to put up with such an asshole.
Roger, the clock is operating we're under way!
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Re: good bye all.
Fucking hell! Everyone gets banned from the ghetto, its no biggie you have a whine about it then find something else to do.
Ya don't run around spoiling everyone else's fun.
Geeeeeez you people are hillarious!
cobralily Goddess of tackiness
Posts: 1761
(3/26/05 3:57 pm)
Re: good bye all.
whatever i can't be arsed to explain what is going on to you and by the sound of it you don't give a shit anyway. i used to think you were nice too. oh well.
Roger, the clock is operating we're under way!
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Posts: 1932
(3/26/05 4:01 pm)
Re: good bye all.
Pink I understand how YOU feel. right or wrong if my husband acted like an ass or made people mad and there was a big fall out I would feel uncomfotable around them. (this is why my husband doesnt go on these sites, he would piss people off) My husband is my husband and stands before anyone else. so in that thought I understand your feelings. I can also understand the others feeling but he is your husband and I can see how you would feel.I am not blaming anyone just saying I would probably do the same. who wouldnt?
Blues reaction was a bit extreme, if he cant be somewhere then no one can. That stinks. But you are NOT blue. I also was under the impression he decided togo thsi route in defense of your feelings, my husband being the ass that he is would probably be the same. But again these sites are where I goand not him. I think its almost like working with your SO and can affect things even friendships when soemthing goes wrong.
Im sorry your leaving Pink, but the way things are I think it will be better for you right now.
Now no o ne flip out on me, I can totally see how Pink feels regardless of how Blue acted.
cobralily Goddess of tackiness
Posts: 1762
(3/26/05 4:02 pm)
Re: good bye all.
everone doesn't get banned from the ghetto
Quote:its no biggie you have a whine about it then find something else to do.
no prob with that statement
Quote:Geeeeeez you people are hillarious!
sarcasm
Roger, the clock is operating we're under way!
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Re: good bye all.
Ok, I'll point this out to you.
I'm saying that Blue and Pink are not alone, to get over it to fuck off making it impossible for everyone else and find themselves a life, blue pony has NEVER been a big favourite of mine....therefore
This is why English people think that Americans have no sence of irony.
Re: good bye all.
Pink, I don't know if your're reading this, but from reading your post I get the feeling you really don't know what's going on.
This is not about talking crap about someone we don't know, it's about an adult man behaving like a complete jerk. And it's not just a "mistake" from his side! He's been saying some very mean things, threatening people etc.
People don't feel comfortable with having him at the Ghetto (for several reasons!), and therefor, unfortunately it was necessary to ban your account too, since we couldn't be sure he wouldn't use it to get in there. No one has anything against you, and I think we're all sorry we had to ban you too, but like I said, it was necessary.
I do understand if you need a break from all of this right now, but please try to see things the way they are...
Re: good bye all.
I don't know you either, Pink. What I am going to say is not a personal attack.
The Ghetto is all about trust and comfort, and people have been banned and denied for the well-being and comfort of the overall group. Let's say you were allowed back, and started posting as usual. Things would change. People wouldn't be nearly as open as usual. It would no longer be the place it used to be, not even for you. Do you really want that? Do you want a half-assed version of the Ghetto? If you'd sacrifice the mood of a whole board just because you feel like being let back in I'd have to call you on being selfish. I understand it doesn't seem fair, and I'd say you're probably right. Unfortunately, by marrying that man you look an amount of resposability for him. Sometimes it's a good thing, but sometimes you get into situations like this.
No one is defriending you, and I don't think anyone is upset with you. You are still wanted on the CF and elsewhere, so I think this is getting blown out of proportion a little bit. I am not trying to say your feelings are invalid, but I've seen plenty of people who are denied access to the Ghetto who do it gracefully. Most of the time they don't even have such a valid reason as yours.
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Posts: 1131
(3/26/05 6:39 pm)
Re: good bye all.
Sorry to hear you're leaving Pink, I like you, and hope to chat with you again. However, I do think your husband needs to learn to be less offensive. I find him to be quite rude, and sending threats to people does not help his case.
I would not want him at the Ghetto again, and frankly, don't think that he could be trusted in staying out of your account at the Ghetto if it was re-activated.
Re: good bye all.
Pink, sad to see you go. I can understand where you're coming from. No matter what happened between Blue and the other members here, he's your hubby and it's always hard to stomach someone talking trash about someone you love. I'd probably want some distance too.
Re: good bye all.
Actually, its funny you should say that about Canadians, the rule for me I find is that I *am* more easily understood by my Canadian friends.
Mom, Jackie, Rachel, Crystal, Diana, both my babies, Matt, Jen, Jef, Scott, Brian, Star, Betty, Deva, Abigail, Danny, and Xavier, I love you all. May you rest in peace.
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